Wajdi Akef Fakhoury, LMFT 148333
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Therapy that begins with how you experience the world
Many people come to therapy after years of adapting themselves to environments, expectations, and systems that were never designed with their needs in mind. At Samar Neurodivergent Therapy Center, our work begins by recognizing this mismatch rather than treating it as a personal deficit.
We offer psychotherapy informed by neurodevelopmental differences and shaped around lived experience. Therapy is adapted to the individual—supporting relief from distress while also fostering greater understanding, self-acceptance, and practical support over time.
Neurodivergence is not approached as something to fix. It is understood as a core part of how a person experiences the world, even as we remain attentive to the real challenges that arise in environments that are not supportive or accessible.
How therapy is adapted
Adaptation isn’t an add-on or optional accommodation — adaptation is the core of how therapy is practiced here.
In shaping psychotherapy, we attend closely to:
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Communication & expression: How you give and receive information, including directness, metaphors, abstract vs concrete language, and pacing.
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Regulation & nervous-system responses: What calms or activates you, and how we structure sessions to support regulation first.
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Executive functioning demands: How planning, initiation, organization, and working memory show up in your daily life and therapy tasks.
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Processing styles: Whether you think more visually, verbally, linearly, or in chunks, and how therapy can align with that rather than fight it.
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Identity & self-understanding: How you make sense of yourself in a world that hasn’t always recognized your ways of being.
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Meaning, motivation, and engagement: What matters to you, not what is “supposed” to matter.
These factors shape how sessions unfold — from pacing and language to structure and agenda — so therapy feels responsive rather than scripted.
Understanding adaption and support
Our work is not about enforcing a specific therapeutic model. It’s about reducing distress and increasing capacity, clarity, and support in the environment. We do this by:
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expanding understanding of how neurodivergent profiles interact with life contexts
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supporting emotion regulation and distress tolerance
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identifying mismatches between internal needs and external expectations
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helping you articulate goals that actually reflect what you want
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tracking outcomes that matter in daily living, not just symptom checklists
Some people seek relief from anxiety, depression, or overwhelm. Others want to understand long-standing patterns that never had space to be noticed. Many are looking for both. Our approach meets both with equal seriousness — without forcing a technique before readiness.
Communication, pacing, and safety
How therapy feels matters. We pay attention to how experience unfolds in the room and across time. This includes:
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Using clear, concrete, direct language
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Allowing extra processing time when needed
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Revisiting ideas across sessions rather than rushing closure
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Adjusting session rhythm, breaks, or length to support regulation
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Attending to sensory and environmental conditions
The goal is not efficiency or productivity. The goal is clarity, comfort, and genuine engagement.
Structure that supports regulation and trust
Where helpful, we build consistency into therapy — in how sessions are organized, in how transitions are handled, and in how expectations are shared. When someone needs flexibility (e.g., different pacing, breaks, or time allotments), we adapt accordingly. Structure is not rigidity; it is support.
Working with systems when it matters
Individual care often intersects with family, school, work, or other support systems. When appropriate, we work alongside:
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families and caregivers
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educators or school teams
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other clinical providers
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case managers and support coordinators
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residential providers
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other natural and paid supports
Our focus in systems work is reducing strain, increasing alignment, and improving supports that are actually accessible and useful — not simply checking boxes or enforcing uniformity.
A thoughtful place to begin
There is no one “right” way to start therapy.
Some begin with immediate goals like reducing anxiety or overwhelm. Others start with confusion about why they feel stuck, or with no clear name for what they’re facing. We allow space to figure that out together — with curiosity, clarity, and respect for your pace.
If you are looking for psychotherapy that recognizes neurodevelopmental differences, prioritizes real-world functioning, and adapts care around the person rather than expecting the person to adapt to a model, we welcome the conversation.